09/23/2026
Most people don't have access to a financial advisor until much later in life. Me being a multi-generational financial advisor, I often get to be a resource for the younger generation earlier than they might have found one on their own, that's a privilege I don't take lightly and it typically starts before they invest their first dollar with me.
This time of year, with so many families sending kids off to college, there's a conversation I find myself having more often than people expect. There is more to it than tuition or 529 plans. It's about what changed the moment their child turned 18.
You spend weeks getting ready. Shopping. Packing. Making lists. And then you pull into that campus parking lot and start carrying boxes up to a dorm room that is somehow both too small and too far from home.
Somewhere between the parking lot and the highway it hits you like a brick wall: they're not a kid anymore.
The day your child turned 18, a few things changed that extend beyond money.
1. You no longer have the same automatic access to their affairs.
Being Mom, Dad, or legal Guardian doesn't give you the same authority you had when they were a minor. If they're in an accident or hospitalized, you may find yourself on the outside of decisions you never imagined being excluded from.
A healthcare power of attorney, financial power of attorney, and HIPAA authorization can change that. These are not documents you want to learn about during an emergency.
2. Know how their health insurance works away from home.
If your child is staying on your plan, find out how that coverage works where they're going to school. Is it network dependent? Are there in-network providers nearby? And if your child has ongoing medical needs, what is the plan for managing those when home is several hours away?
3. Help them start building credit the right way.
A starter credit card used responsibly can help establish a credit history. But the more important part is the conversation around how credit works. Pay the balance in full. Don't treat the credit limit as money you have. The habits they develop now can follow them long after they leave campus.
Most of the college checklist is obvious. But some of the most important things aren't going in the dorm room.
I have this conversation with clients all the time. This does not mean something went wrong. It just means your, and your loved ones, life continues to change.
If any of this resonated with you, that feeling is worth paying attention to.
Assuming you've got it right doesn't mean assuming you're done.