Shirley Wang

I recently had to have a difficult conversation with a client who was set on buying a $700,000 house. They were excited and felt ready—but as their advisor I needed to step in and walk through what that choice would really mean for their cash flow and lifestyle.

It’s exciting to get pre‑approved for a $700,000 mortgage. The bank is happy to lend them this amount—after all, the home itself serves as collateral.

But here’s the reality: with a loan of this size, their monthly payment (including principal, interest, taxes, and insurance—PITI) could amount to 50% or even 60% of their take‑home pay. That leaves little room for things like travel, hobbies, or even an occasional date night—not just for a year or two, but potentially for the next 30 years.

So, ask: Is this the lifestyle they truly want? Is it worth sacrificing flexibility and joy just to “stretch” into a bigger house? Sometimes, being approved for a loan doesn’t mean it’s the best financial choice for them and their long‑term happiness.

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I’m not stingy—I just choose to spend money in ways that make my life easier and more enjoyable.

Recently, I was talking with a friend who’s moving. Instead of investing $40 in 20 uniform, strong, easy-to-stack boxes, she decided to collect used Amazon boxes from neighbors to save a few bucks. Smart and thrifty!

For me, I’m unwilling to spend $50 on a single meal out, but I happily invest time and care into making delicious, healthy dinners at home.

It’s never really about the amount of money — it’s about the convenience and quality it brings. I’m all for spending smart to simplify life, not just to save pennies.

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I've recently met with a couple making over $700K a year, and they took advice from a social media account. Is this wise?

Short answer: social media can spark good ideas, but for a couple earning $700K+, relying on it alone is risky — and sometimes expensive. 🤳💸

Why it’s tempting

Quick, catchy advice feels actionable and confident.
It’s easy to hit “apply” when the post promises a fast win. 🚀

Why it’s dangerous for high earners

Your tax and planning picture is complex (bonuses, stock grants, AMT, state taxes). One‑size‑fits‑all tips miss the details. 🧾📉
Posts often skip the math, timing, and trade‑offs that matter most at higher incomes. 🤔
Conflicts of interest: some creators get paid to push products or partners — look for disclosures. ⚠️

How to vet a social post (quick checklist)

Who’s the source? CPA/CFP/attorney credentials matter. 👩‍⚖️👨‍💼
Ask for the assumptions and the numbers — can they show the math? 🔢
Is it reversible and low risk? If not, get a second opinion. 🔁✅
Would a CPA or your advisor spot a red flag? If yes, pause. 🛑

Bottom line: Treat social posts as idea starters, not financial blueprints. For high incomes, validate with a CPA/CFP and run the numbers first. Want to share the exact post they followed? I can walk through the assumptions and show the potential pitfalls. 📈🔍

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Feeling stuck? Try a “Rose reboot”

Picture old Rose from Titanic, then imagine being whisked back into a younger version of yourself with fresh time ahead. Small mental reset, big perspective.

Nope, it’s not that $8 ☕️ coffee wrecking your budget — it’s the whole “treat myself” mindset creeping in everywhere!

When you pick between a $1,200/month studio 🏢 and a $1,700 one‑bedroom 🛏️, that little voice says, “Go ahead, treat yourself!” When it’s a used car with a $350 payment 🚗 vs. a shiny new ride with that fresh‑car smell for $800 💸, guess which one wins? Yep — the “treat me” choice again!

By month’s end, no savings in sight — and suddenly it’s all the coffee’s fault. ☕️😅 Lifestyle inflation hides behind those “fun” treats and quietly eats your future.

Flip the script: “Pay your future self first.” Automate savings so you save before you spend, and commit to living within your means. 📤➡️💰

Quick rule of thumb for housing: take your take‑home pay and multiply it by 0.28 — that should be the maximum housing cost (rent or mortgage plus basic housing expenses).

Example: $5,000 take‑home → $5,000 × 0.28 = $1,400 max for housing. ✅
Small changes now = big wins later. 💪📈

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A client told me recently that budgeting feels impossible and the idea of working side gigs after a 40‑hour week is draining. That really made me think of this quote, choose your hard.