10/07/2026
Your first year of will try to bankrupt you. Politely, of course. One "we deserve this" or "we've put this off for too long" at a time.
First, maybe, it's the anniversary trip you've talked about for a decade or more. Then, the kitchen remodel, because now you're home all day staring at those yellow oak cabinets circa 1994. Then maybe you want that RV, which seems like a great idea until you try backing it into the driveway. And because you're caring and generous, you help a grandkid with college tuition.
It all sounds familiar to me, because these are the common things early retirees want to jump in and do. It's completely normal. But compare those expenses with the idea that most people expect to spend less once they retire. Eventually -- EVENTUALLY -- many do. But those early years often look expensive.
These spending stages are often described in three seasons:
The go-go years. Usually the first ten years or so. You're healthy, you're free, and you finally have time for everything you've been putting off. Spending often goes up here, sometimes a lot (especially if you're not used to monitoring the budget).
The slow-go years. Trips get a little shorter and a little closer to home. You might swap the European cruise for a long weekend in Sunriver. The spending tends to level off. this is the less expensive period of retirement.
The no-go years. Life gets quieter and everyday spending often drops, but health care costs can climb.
Why does all of this matter? A lot of retirement plans assume you'll spend the same amount every year until you're 95, accounting for inflation.
Real life rarely looks like that.
If your plan doesn't account for a busy start, you might hold back during the fun years out of fear. Or you might spend freely without knowing whether it's safe.
Neither one feels good in retrospect.
The best part of planning is the sense of 'giving yourself permission' to enjoy the go-go years. When you know your numbers can handle a bigger start, you can book the trip without the guilt. And when you know where the money for later is coming from, you stop asking, "can we afford this?" every time the credit card comes out.
Retirement should feel like a reward. You've worked a long time to get here!