10/01/2026
The neighbor who “retired fine” isn’t a plan you can borrow. You don’t know his pension, his spouse’s income, his debt, or whether he’s actually fine or just not saying otherwise.
You’d be making 30-year decisions off a highlight reel.
Your taxes, your health, your timeline, the order you draw down your accounts, none of it matches his. Follow the herd and you might feel covered for a while, but you still won’t know if you’re pulling too much from the IRA or overpaying the IRS every April.
Confidence in retirement comes from knowing your own numbers cold. It never comes from matching someone else’s.