Wise Millennials

Happy mother's day to the real superheroes! 🌺

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You can’t grow if you’re constantly explaining or
defending your dreams to people who don’t
understand them. ✨

The greatest financial advantage you can provide yourself is to avoid the need to impress others. Live in a small home. Drive the simpliest vehicle. Keep your wardrobe minimal. Begin to build assets that will provide you with stability for the next 10 to 20 years. 🩵

✨28th of February✨

Healing, growth, opportunities, blessings, new memories, genuine happiness. ♥️

Habang tumatanda tayo, we're learning to appreciate the quiet moments. Yung napapagod na tayo sa ingay. We choose to stay away from toxic people and their aweful mindset kasi kotang kota na sila sa atin.

Mas pinipili na lang natin dumistansya. Just as silence is always more powerful than proving a point. 💯

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I hate being misunderstood.

I don’t ever want to be thought of as selfish or mean or unkind.

But the thing I’ve learned is, I’m not in charge of someone’s perception of me.

Years ago I went through something tough in a friendship. Everything I did and said went was misinterpreted as something else.

It was awful and I felt terrible. Not just because I wanted to be understood, but because my friend was hurt. I am a fixer and with everything in me wanted to fix it, but I couldn’t.

One night I was sitting on my couch watching a movie. The stress of the broken friendship was weighing on me constantly. Was there something more I could do? Something more I could say? Why were we missing each other so completely?

The ending credits started and a song came on that grabbed my attention with the words “nothing to prove”. At the same moment I looked down at my phone and what was playing on Spotify in the girls bedroom rolled across the screen: “Nothing left to prove”.

Nothing left to prove. Nothing left to prove. I knew it was for me.

I am in charge of my own heart and that is all. I can do my best and someone can still misunderstand, and that’s not mine to carry.

It doesn’t mean I’m perfect or do everything right (not by a long shot), but if I screw up I want to make it right. And that’s honestly all friendship requires of us. We have to let the rest go.

Ugh that’s hard. But it’s also releasing.

Friends, we can only do our best. We can only manage our own hearts. We don’t need to prove or defend our intentions until we’re run ragged. In fact we shouldn’t do that, it’s not our job.

Our job is to love our people to the best of our ability, and to release the rest.

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Absolutely! Finishing the year strong with positivity and purpose is the ultimate vibe. Here’s to surrounding ourselves with the energy that uplifts us. ✨

Save money secret.
You buy a car privately. And you drive it to publicity.✨

Buy land in secret. Build the house in secret. Then do the house warming party with publicity.✨

Date in secret. Propose in private. Then marry in front of a crowd.💍

Let your haters only see your reality, never your vision, or you will have division.🫶

In a game of chess, you don't speak. You just act. The only time that you ever speak when playing chess is to say checkmate. ♟️

Life is like chess. Don't broadcast your intentions. Act quietly. Keep achieving. Your achievements are your checkmate.♟️✨

by Ann Jaime 💫