07/10/2026
5 years ago.
The moment in my life when I decided. That's it. I was done doing it everyone else's way, hiding behind the scenes, not able to take the leap.
Women hit an age. A turning point where we drop the pleasing, the saying yes, being put in a corner. For many reasons, I decided I was done.
I quit my role. Gave up any form of income. Started completely from zero. There was no business plan, I just knew I had to do it.
0 income. 0 clients.
I took a huge leap and went with my heart. I turned off the voice of doubt. I wanted to be in control of my destiny.
A quick summary: farmers markets. Presentations to the military. Every form of attempt at social media. Leaflets. Women's presentations (my favourite). Friends and family mentioning my name and sharing my posts. Networking. Workplace presentations. Mentoring.
I have pushed and pushed to get people to understand what I do and to sit with me, to talk about money, to plan for their future, to understand the numbers and share their worries, their wins, their wants.
Somewhere in the middle of all that, I ended up with a little appearance on the Martin Lewis Money Show. Still not entirely sure how, still haven't watched it, still don't like talking about it.
Today, I sit at 5 years, and I am beyond grateful. I know how hard I have worked but I wouldn't be here without the supportive people around me. You all know who you are, clients, friends, family, the team at Slaiyburn Financial Planning.
I have the most amazing clients, many who've become friends, I have also turned clients away, because it has to be right for both of us, this is a journey. I've built a business in a community I love. I've found friendships within my business community who have supported me and will be by my side going forward.
The voice of doubt still turns up every day. I just don't listen to it the way I used to.
I cannot wait for the next 5 years (although I would like them to go just a little bit slower)