15/10/2026
When your parents start needing you financially, emotionally or both.
Sometimes it happens slowly. A few extra appointments. Help with paperwork. A conversation about driving, care or whether the house is still right.
Sometimes it happens all at once.
And for many people in their 40s and 50s, it lands right alongside work, kids, mortgages and their own plans for the future.
This is often referred to as 'The Sandwich Generation'.
Supporting ageing parents can become an emotional responsibility and a financial one.
The challenge is making sure you can be there for them without quietly losing sight of your own position in the process.