𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗖𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀

With God by my side, one healed step at a time.♥️

Lately, I’m learning to see the blessings that have been quietly surrounding me, but there are times that the process feels heavy, and I find myself focusing more on the outcome than the journey.

That’s why one of my constant prayers is this⬇️

“For he satisfieth the longing soul, and filleth the hungry soul with goodness."
— Psalms 107:9

There are days when worry feels automatic, worry about finances, career, or business. Worry about life and what tomorrow might bring. Worry about whether I’m doing enough or becoming enough. But Jesus gently reminds me today that worry can’t add anything to my life.

‭‭Luke‬ ‭12‬:‭22‬-‭26‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“Then Jesus said to his disciples: “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?”

Ito na Lord, babangon na po😭.

“The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?”
— Jeremiah 17:9

An open letter to my future husband.♥️

I believe with all my heart that the Lord is molding you as just He is shaping me in this season.

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“Trenta kana, dapat mag-asawa kana!”
“Mahihirapan ka nang magkaanak nyan!”
“Isipin mo kung late kang mag-aasawa, late ka ng magkakaanak, matanda kana nagpapa-aral ka padin!”

Can we stop normalizing saying these?
May kanya-kanya tayong preferences and timeline kung kailan natin gustong mag-asawa at magkaanak. Oo, maaaring sa iba pagpapaalala lang but some people wouldn’t know the pressure it can put on someone unintentionally.

Yung iba, pinipiling maging financially capable muna before starting a family, not out of fear but out of love because they know too well what it’s like to grow up in lack, to wake up each day facing silent battles, maybe life expected them to handle things way beyond their age, not giving them a choice but to survive.

Yung iba, pinipiling maghintay hindi dahil choosy sila o mataas yung standard but because they know their worth. Hindi sila nagmamadali, they’re waiting for someone who can understands them deeply. Someone who will pursue them with consistency. Someone who will choose them every single day, and honor them with intentional love. They’re waiting for a partner who values commitment, envisions a future together, and is ready to build a lasting foundation, the one that is rooted in trust, faith, and family.

Yung iba mas prioritize yung freedom at independence, not because they’re selfish, but because they have learned to find peace in standing on their own. They want to cherish the quiet joy of making choices for themselves; where to live, how to spend their time, and what to do with their hard-earned money on their own terms. Freedom isn’t a phase, it’s a powerful choice to honor their growth, protect their peace, and live fully without needing permission.

Yung iba, focus muna sa career or personal goals, hindi dahil takot sila sa commitment but because they’re committed to becoming whole, they long to grow and to explore who they are outside of a relationship. They want to chase dreams, nurture passions, and pour into the things that make them feel alive. It’s not about avoiding love; it’s about giving themselves the time and space to bloom before they share their life with someone else.

Yung iba, mas pinipiling mag step back muna para magheal, not because they don’t want a family, but because they are still carrying the wounds of emotional trauma. They know what it feels like to be surrounded by love that hurts not heals, they want to break the cycle, to heal the scars from growing up in a toxic home. They are longing to building a healthy home where peace is normal and love is safe.

Some people don’t want the next generation to carry the same weight they once did. So instead of pressuring them, let’s respect their journey and appreciate their courage to break the cycle.

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Here’s the truth:

God never wastes pain.
In His time, He redeems it all for a greater purpose.
A gentle reminder for us to trust the process. Trust the Author.♥️

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Lead the way Lord.
Whatever it takes, please guide me in everything.

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