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In every staff room/offices, there must be that one person that will always put mouth in every talk even when not invited.
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15 FOOLISH HABITS OF A BABY WIFE

1. GOING TO SLEEP IN KIDS' OR SPARE BEDROOM OR SITTING ROOM WHEN THEY HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING :

This is a sign of avoidance and unwillingness to resolve conflicts. A mature partner would stay and work through the issue, rather than running away from it. It's being childish.

2. TELLING HER HUSBAND AS NOT MAN ENOUGH:

This is a form of emotional abuse and undermines the partner's self-esteem. A mature partner would communicate constructively about issues without personal attacks. Very few men can survive this injury.

3. "THERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO CAN MARRY ME WHEN I LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE":

This is a threat and a form of emotional blackmail. A mature partner would address problems in the relationship directly and work towards a solution.

4. BEING QUICK TO GET angryY ABOUT EVERYTHING:

Excessive anger and overreaction to minor issues is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would respond with more patience and understanding.

5. CAN'T JUST FORGIVE, KEEPS HURTS IN HIS OR HER HEART:

Holding onto grudges and resentment is a barrier to healthy conflict resolution. A mature partner would be able to forgive and move forward.

6. ALWAYS BEING RIGHT , UNABLE TO ADMIT BEING WRONG :

Lack of humility and unwillingness to compromise is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would be open to different perspectives and willing to acknowledge their own mistakes.

7. LOVING PARENTS AND SIBLINGS MORE THAN SPOUSE:

This indicates a lack of emotional investment in the marriage and a failure to prioritize the spousal relationship.

8. FEELING ENTITLED TO EVERYTHING:

A sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would have a more balanced view of the give and take in a relationship.

9. FIGHTING SPOUSE'S FAMILY DIRTY:

Engaging in petty conflicts and disrespecting the spouse's family is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would strive to maintain positive relationships with in-laws.

10. ISSUING THREATS OF DIVORCE , SEPARATION, OR VIOLENCE:

These are manipulative and abusive tactics that have no place in a healthy, mature relationship.

11. THINKING THEY ARE TOO IMPORTANT IN THE LIFE OF THEIR SPOUSES:

This indicates a lack of understanding of the importance of mutual respect and independence in a marriage.

12. BRAGGING ABOUT WHAT SHE IS DOING TO SUPPORT THE HUSBAND:

This suggests a need for external validation and a lack of genuine concern for the partner's well-being.

13. GETTING MUTE ON THE HUSBAND JUST BECAUSE HIM LOOKED AT ANOTHER WOMAN AT THE MALL

If she caught her husband looking at a woman and appreciating her looks when they were together at a shopping mall, she stops talking to her husband for months, stops cooking his favorite meal and can't even sleep on the same bed with him.

14. DARING HER HUSBAND TO GET ANOTHER WOMAN AS IF SHE DOESN'T CARE.

Daring a man to get another woman is not only childish but dangerous, because not every husband is a believer.

15. RESENTING KIDS BECAUSE HUBBY HID THEM FROM HER

When she discovers that her husband hid the fact that he had a child/children before meeting her, she immediately resents those kids.

MARRIAGE IS NOT CHILD'S PLAY.

He was shocked to see his friend raise his voice at his wife.

The whole thing was looking strange to him. Like he has never tried it on his wife.

“Aaaaaah! My Angel? I can never raise my voice at her. She is just so sweet." He finally spoke up when his friend confronted him.

His friend looked at him and laughed out loud, and then said to him, “O boy, you are not man enough oooo. How can you tell me you don't shout at your wife?" He continued.

“You are not serious ooo. How do you want that woman to respect you. I mean, how do you want her to regard you as her head if you don't shout at her?" He asked again, and continued.

“You need to tell her who the head is, and the only way to do that is to shut her down whenever she wants to talk. She is only permitted to listen and not talk."

“If you continue this way, that woman will trambl3 on you oooo. She will start disrespecting you. Don't say I didn't tell you oooo." He advised.

That day, he left the office with a new resolution. He decided to start being the man that he is, by shouting at his wife.

“Since it's working for my friend, I know it would definitely work for me." He resolved.

That night, he raised his voice at his wife five good times. At first, the wife was shocked, and then, she became withdrawn.

The next day, the ever lively woman that always gave her hubby a beautiful peck, that hugs her dear husband to pray for him deeply before he left for work, couldn't do all of those things again. She was scar3d, and shocked.

That day at work, things seemed so different. The man couldn't concentrate. Everything he did seemed to work against him. He couldn't understand what the problem was.

And then, he remembered, that for the first time since they got married, he had left the house without the goodwill of his dear wife.

The smiles, the hugs, the pecks, the encouragements, and most importantly, the prayers, he didn't receive all of that before he left for work.

And then, he realized, what he just did. He had closed a channel, his channel of goodwill, just because he wanted to prove a point, and be like his friend.

That day, as he returned from the office, he stopped by at the Aboki's Suya Joint, bought a great deal, and then, got 2 bottles of Vita Milk.

He came home and met his wife sitting on the cushion in their sitting room. The moment she saw him, she je**ed up from the chair, fidgeting and shaking.

“Googooood afternoon sir." She said as she shook in fear. She was too scared to come close.

And then, he realized the hàrm this little attitude of his was already doing in his home, his marriage and his dear Angel.

“Come here," he said in a romantic voice as he took a step closer to his wife.

He held her by the hands, brought her closer to him and said, “I am sorry honey, for causing you pains. I didn't intend to. Please forgive me."

The wife was shocked. It looked like a Nigerian movie to her. “What exactly is going on?" She thought to herself.

And then, she made to talk, to speak, to apologize, to .....

Her hubby closed her lips with a finger, and said to her, “You don't have to say anything honey. You don't have to apologize. You didn't do anything. I was only a victîm of negativé influences." He explained.

“I promise it will never happen again, my Angel." He pledged.

They hugged, and remained mute for some time. And then, the joy flowed again, the assurance came again, the peace returned.

And his woman came alive again.

“Aaaaaaaah! I am perceiving something from your bag. It's like you bought something to brîbe me." Her wife yabbed.

“Yea! I bought your favourite. Suya and Vita milk. I needed to appease the gods for tampering with my Angel's heart." He joked.

“The gods have been successfully appeased." She smiled as she took his suitcase and the nylon containing the Suya.

They gisted as they happily went inside the room to have a sweet fellowship.

Every relationship is unique. Don't measure your relationship based on another man's yardstick.

Your marriage will thrive 🌹

This question is so derogatory
Is It food? Is It always what you think about?
Yet if you eat out, heaven will let loose with betrayal allergy.
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A guy I met on Facebook added something to my drink on our first meeting.

I think It's time to share my experience so nobody falls victim again.

Ladies, you need to be careful. This guy was very active on my wall, commenting on anything that concerns me. I loved his vibes.

On his birthday, he wished I hang out with him even if it was for 30mins.
Because I don't like meeting people, especially online, that decision was very hard for me. After several thoughts, I accepted because it was his birthday lemme make it beautiful for him at least.

I told him not to pick me, I will find my way. I arrived at the restaurant, One thing I do each time I arrive at a place is to observe my environment very well.
I could recognize him quickly because he looked exactly like the person on his DP. Another guy was seating on the driver's side discussing with him.

So I dial his number, he came out of the car and saw me. So we entered the restaurant, I gave him the present I got for him.

He offered me a lot which I declined. I hardly take things on a date, hang out, or meet except we are close enough in real life.

I noticed his unhappy face because I declined all he offered, I felt for him. So I decided to take a bottle of coke. he ordered something for himself.

While he was eating, the waitress over the counter called his attention and dropped the bill note containing the transfer account details. I looked around, there was no other waiter in sight, so I got up to pick up the note.

I came back to my seat and noticed my drink bubbling. You know how it is to drop something inside a carbonated drink. So he quickly requested the bill note to do the transfer, a means to divert my attention.
I relaxed as if nothing happened, I started bringing on topics for discussion so I can take a little time before I leave...

He noticed that I wasn't taking the drink anymore, he urged me to take the drink so he can order more. I told him I was satisfied already. He persisted but I told him I was badly belching already. I told him never to worry, that I will pay for the drink.

So I brought out my phone and faked a distress call. After pretending on the phone for up to 5 minutes. I told him that I will have to go and that the people I left before coming are on my neck.

I begged him to permit me. He told me that he didn't like what I did to the drink he offered me, he can only be happy if I finish up the drink.
I took the coke, covered it, and told him that I will finish it at home. I patted his back, still, he was protesting.
He escorted me out. He told me to join them so they can drop me off.
thanks to God, a bike Just dropped somebody. I mounted on the bike.

While the bike man was driving out, he moved to the car where the other guy was waiting and was telling him something.

When I got to my place, I went to the messenger to thank him for the drink. I could no longer see his account. Everything was white. I called the number he gave me, but it was no longer going.
Up till today, that number never connected again.

You need to be careful with all this “when am I seeing you, I'll like to meet you..” most of them are not genuine. No matter how close you are with anybody here online, please be careful.
They can do anything to have you!.👌

It's true that 99% of people following me here, do not know me. They have never met me before but I so much value them. I appreciate these friends of mine on this space❤️👌

May Allah continue to protect us from Frenemies🤲

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